You need this release…

I help women reset.

After back-to-back challenging experiences, it can be hard to know where to begin your healing. That’s why I’m here.

Using biblical principles and captivating coaching, I help women evolve after tragic experiences, so that they can establish a healthy lifestyle and win.

Go Be HER‘ is Here! 

Your Self Coaching Guide 

Back to You! 

A personal desk companion to help you reset and coach yourself daily. 

I’ve been where you’ve been.
In February of 2021, I took a hard reset.

With all of the fear and reasons not to, I booked a one-way ticket to Costa Rica to start a brand new life. I put my home on the market, enrolled in a 21-day book bootcamp and set out on the journey to becoming a full time life coach and author.

In that time, I created a book, I am so proud of. This book compiles some of the many ways that I help women reset daily. Go Be HER: Your Self-Coaching Guide back to You is a book every woman needs.

With 70+ prompts and affirmations for you to flip to daily, you’ll be feeling more yourself than ever before and ready to become the woman you always knew you could be.


At the same time as I was creating this book for YOU, I created a process of coaching that I believe every woman needs. A process that helps you reconnect with yourself, and God after a difficult season.

We’ve all been through those tumultuous experiences that seem to hold us back from the life we want. 

As your coach, I help you see past the fear and into your God ordained future. You’ll unlearn the previous programming that kept you in broken cycles and step into a life of power and ease, with simple strategies that help you move forward.

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My coaching process is for you if:

You are committed to living a life of peace, even in the face of fear and tragedy.

You’ve done the work to heal from your past, and you’re ready to move forward with a clear vision.

You KNOW that if you could just get some time away for yourself, without distraction, you would come out on top.

You come from a rocky foundation, and you need a little support finding the balance as you rebuild a new and healthy one. I believe you’re right there at the edge of your breakthrough. And I am here to guide you all the way through to the finish line.

If you’re ready to meet yourself and learn all that you need to to become HER today, then this is for you!

My clients are getting to where they want to be because they are seeing themselves there in our coaching together.


letting others define them
approaching life timidly
being unclear & confused


redefining themselves
completely redesigning their lives

Being clear, Decisive and taking action

By connecting with their inner child, they are reconnecting with their imagination and with the voice of God and finding the clarity and courage to move forward. Join us on the journey of self-discovery. Book a free mini-call to learn more and see if we’re a good fit. 

Life Strategy Retreat

This 3-day, multi-session process is perfect for the professional who’s hit a wall in their personal growth.

You’ll go from feeling weighed down by putting everyone before yourself, to uncovering the mental traps that kept you there.

You’ll leave feeling seen and with a clear plan on how to stay aligned with self and God.

Coaching Subscriptions

Bundle your sessions and uncover the traps that keep you bound. Each week, we explore the topic of your choice and gain new awareness for how to move forward.

Following the sessions, you’ll be clear on how to break out of these cycles, be aware of where they start, and have tools to avoid them so that you can stay free.

“It’s like being shown things about myself that I didn’t realize (or had forgotten) were there.”

Barbara Leary, Award-Winning Children’s Book Author

“I came here a little heavy, but I’m leaving light, fluffy and jovial.”

I needed to be here. It was a God thing. It was orchestrated by God. And He literally showed up this whole weekend. If you are on the fence, book your [retreat] sessions with Becca. They are life changing. She has a gift, a God-given gift. It will be life changing for you, like it’s been life changing for me. Choose to go in deep and choose to change your life. So make sure you book… it’s just that simple. And then let God do the rest.

Alexis Harris, IT Professional & Restaurateur 

Real results from real clients


I’ve been there before.

When will I ever have the time to catch my breath?


“It feels like even after the vacation, I’m back to going through the motions, and this SUCKS! I just know this isn’t all life was cut out to be. There has to be more.”

Well, the time is actually now. If you’ve made it this far, then chances are, you’re ripe and ready for what God has in store for you.

I’ve been there.

Not being able to think clearly, judgement clouded, stuck in the same relationship cycles, not being able to make decisions for myself and losing confidence in the ones I have made.  The critical voice inside your head won’t let you catch a break. It’s like a broken record of judgement and condemnation, questioning everything in your life, including God’s love.

My clients are getting to where they want to be because they are seeing themselves there in our coaching together.

→ They’re moving from letting others define them to redefining themselves.

→ They’re moving from approaching life timidly to completely redesigning their lives.

→ They’re going from being unclear and confused to reimagining what’s possible.

Follow my journey!

By taking time to themselves, they are learning to reparent their younger self, and better connect with the voice of God that is calling them forward.

Join us on this journey of discovery. Book a free mini-call to learn more and see if we’re a good fit.

I’m a life coach, author, and strategist.

I’m Rebbecca Oluwatoyin Bakare! But you can call me, Bex. I am obsessed with seeing women set free! I have been coaching women into their freedom since 2017. And more recently I have shifted the focus to helping women heal from their past shame so that they can achieve the future of their dreams.

My clients are conquering the anxieties of new roles as CEOs, new levels in their relationships, and others have launched into new endeavors or businesses they didn’t feel equipped or qualified for. 

My go-getter mindset in the face of road blocks is contagious, and you’ll find yourself believing you can do anything too, no matter what’s in front of you!

“The world is waiting for what you have to offer on the other side of your freedom.”

– Rebbecca, your fave life coach